Elevated Frequency
ENM & CNM Support Circle

Men’s Circle

Jealousy, identity, communication, vulnerability — a room where men can finally talk about it.

Most men navigating ethical non-monogamy have nowhere honest to take it. The jealousy, the comparison, the questions about identity and masculinity — it gets carried alone. This circle is a small, confidential room of men in similar situations who go deeper, faster, because they’re not translating their experience for anyone. It’s peer support, lived and led, not a lecture.

Who it’s for

Men in open or polyamorous relationships, or seriously exploring — especially those wrestling with jealousy, comparison, or what masculinity looks like outside the traditional script.

The six-week arc
Week 1 — Identity & values
Who am I in this, and why ENM? Naming what you actually want and what masculinity means here.
Week 2 — Communication
Saying the hard thing. Asking for what you need without apology or armor.
Week 3 — Jealousy & triggers
What’s actually underneath the jealousy — scarcity, comparison, fear — and how to sit with it.
Week 4 — Agreements & boundaries
Building agreements that hold, and boundaries you can actually keep.
Week 5 — Integration
Bringing it into real situations — the messy, in-the-moment stuff.
Week 6 — Where do I go from here
Ongoing practice, brotherhood, and staying connected after the six weeks.
Format
Structure
6 weekly sessions · 90 min
Group
Intimate cohort of ~10
Signature
Music-supported
Three ways to join
Open Circle
Free
Free · monthly taster — 3rd Wednesday, 7pm
Music-supported. A real taste of the room — facilitated conversation and simple ground rules. The on-ramp, no commitment.
Most popular
Core Circle
$199
Founding members $129
The full 6-week facilitated cohort with live music to open and close each session, structured weekly, plus a private group thread and resources.
Inner Circle
$449
Founding members $349
Everything in Core — including live music — plus a 1:1 intake call, a private session or two, a priority seat, and ongoing alumni access.

Facilitated by someone with years of personal, lived experience navigating ethical non-monogamy — not as a therapist, but as someone who has lived it and knows what it actually feels like to not have a room like this.

Ready to join the room?

Add your name to the waitlist and we’ll be in touch about the next Men’s Circle.

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Elevated Frequency circles are peer support and facilitated connection — not therapy, counseling, or mental health treatment. If you need clinical support, we keep a referral list of licensed professionals.